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space for grief

May 19, 2023

Overview

The inaugural Space for Grief experience invited visitors to walk through two connected spaces on the third floor of the Reference Library, which were designed to support and prompt reflections on and processing of grief. 

The creation of two separate spaces – one representative of an individual walk through the forest, the other of a communal sit around the campfire – was intended to hold space for the colourful and multifaceted experience of grief, which is not solely introspective and mournful but also brings with it joy, anger, laughter, and the spectrum of emotions in between. Emotions that we need to experience both in solitude and community.

These two spaces integrated natural elements which are commonly associated with grief in other cultures, whether being burial grounds or places for reflection, purification, transformation, and connection to the spiritual realm.

A soundscape, composed and performed by Ziyan Hossain and Rakat Zami, was created to accompany the walk through these two spaces. The tracks served to fully immerse visitors in the space, sonically drawing out different emotions and memories.

The experience ended with a final space: a wall of messages which hung on bird-shaped cutouts that held reflections from visitors on their experiences of and ideas on grief.

Over 500 handwritten messages were left on this wall over the course of nine days; messages of love, loss, hope, connection, memory, pain, healing.

Following completion of the installation, these messages were released in a fire ceremony that all were invited to.

Location

Toronto Reference Library

789 Yonge St, Toronto, ON M4W 2G8

Why the library?

As an inclusive, nonsectarian place, the library presents an ideal location to bring people from all walks of life and experiences to explore grief collectively.

The diversity of people and their vision, which strongly aligns with Space for Grief, are just some qualities that make the Toronto Reference Library a welcoming space for people to come together and build community around processing grief.

Toronto Reference Library’s vision is

“Informing and inspiring Toronto and its communities, making us all more resilient, more knowledgeable, more connected and more successful.”

Partners

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